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		<title>Comment on Revealed &#8211; How To Attract People To YOU Like A MAGNET by Ann</title>
		<link>http://www.davelourdes.com/blog/?p=85&#038;cpage=1#comment-235</link>
		<dc:creator>Ann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 May 2010 03:42:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Dave

I enjoyed reading this reminder about people, so true, not that hard, yet not often done . 
It&#039;s on my white board, now it will be done!

Cheers

Ann</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Dave</p>
<p>I enjoyed reading this reminder about people, so true, not that hard, yet not often done .<br />
It&#8217;s on my white board, now it will be done!</p>
<p>Cheers</p>
<p>Ann</p>
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		<title>Comment on Want to inspire your office?  Start writing on the walls – seriously! by This is what happens when you let me near window pens &#171;</title>
		<link>http://www.davelourdes.com/blog/?p=338&#038;cpage=1#comment-193</link>
		<dc:creator>This is what happens when you let me near window pens &#171;</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 09:45:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I have been doing some work lately with a great leadership coach, David Lourdes. Dave noticed my office window motivational scribbles and was inspired to blog about them. Read all about it on Dave&#8217;s blog. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I have been doing some work lately with a great leadership coach, David Lourdes. Dave noticed my office window motivational scribbles and was inspired to blog about them. Read all about it on Dave&#8217;s blog. [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Rapport&#8230;your ticket to PLAY by VISNJA NESBIT</title>
		<link>http://www.davelourdes.com/blog/?p=67&#038;cpage=1#comment-68</link>
		<dc:creator>VISNJA NESBIT</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 00:43:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great tips son!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great tips son!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Ohhh Nooo&#8230;you&#8217;re on a different wavelength to me! by Carolann Jacobs</title>
		<link>http://www.davelourdes.com/blog/?p=324&#038;cpage=1#comment-67</link>
		<dc:creator>Carolann Jacobs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Mar 2010 14:35:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dave, 

Interesting observation.  I attended an event last night at which the featured speaker opened up with a line about the person (her friend no less) who introduced her:  &quot;Wow!  Note to self, don&#039;t go on after a guy who&#039;s been drinking a lot.&quot;  My friend and I had a similar Luna Park reaction to you and your wife.  For about a minute, we tried to look at how that could have been meant positively. 

It broke rapport with the audience immediately.  She never regained it.

Obvious narcissism is a rapport breaker for sure.  

Have a good one!

Carolann Jacobs
http://www.vividepiphany.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dave, </p>
<p>Interesting observation.  I attended an event last night at which the featured speaker opened up with a line about the person (her friend no less) who introduced her:  &#8220;Wow!  Note to self, don&#8217;t go on after a guy who&#8217;s been drinking a lot.&#8221;  My friend and I had a similar Luna Park reaction to you and your wife.  For about a minute, we tried to look at how that could have been meant positively. </p>
<p>It broke rapport with the audience immediately.  She never regained it.</p>
<p>Obvious narcissism is a rapport breaker for sure.  </p>
<p>Have a good one!</p>
<p>Carolann Jacobs<br />
<a href="http://www.vividepiphany.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.vividepiphany.com</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on Ohhh Nooo&#8230;you&#8217;re on a different wavelength to me! by Julie Lourdes</title>
		<link>http://www.davelourdes.com/blog/?p=324&#038;cpage=1#comment-65</link>
		<dc:creator>Julie Lourdes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Mar 2010 17:05:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent!.I will make someone&#039;s day very special by making it about them. Maybe your dad? Mum</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent!.I will make someone&#8217;s day very special by making it about them. Maybe your dad? Mum</p>
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		<title>Comment on Rapport&#8230;your ticket to PLAY by Ohhh Nooo&#8230;you&#8217;re on a different wavelength to me! &#171;</title>
		<link>http://www.davelourdes.com/blog/?p=67&#038;cpage=1#comment-64</link>
		<dc:creator>Ohhh Nooo&#8230;you&#8217;re on a different wavelength to me! &#171;</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Mar 2010 22:13:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] know I&#8217;m obsessed with the importance of Building Rapport, I&#8217;ve actually blogged about Rapport earlier and talked about how it&#8217;s an absolute  MUST if you&#8217;re serious about any kind [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] know I&#8217;m obsessed with the importance of Building Rapport, I&#8217;ve actually blogged about Rapport earlier and talked about how it&#8217;s an absolute  MUST if you&#8217;re serious about any kind [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Checking Emails is an Addiction by Jason Bibby</title>
		<link>http://www.davelourdes.com/blog/?p=204&#038;cpage=1#comment-51</link>
		<dc:creator>Jason Bibby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 11:22:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Dave,

What a great strategy.  You know I catch myself checking my emails on my iphone over the weekend thinking if I can clear out some emails then it will save me time during the day.

Catch up soon,

Jason Bibby.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Dave,</p>
<p>What a great strategy.  You know I catch myself checking my emails on my iphone over the weekend thinking if I can clear out some emails then it will save me time during the day.</p>
<p>Catch up soon,</p>
<p>Jason Bibby.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Toxic Team Get Out of Jail Strategies by Louise Halliday</title>
		<link>http://www.davelourdes.com/blog/?p=309&#038;cpage=1#comment-46</link>
		<dc:creator>Louise Halliday</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 09:13:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This was great. Excellent practical tips which I can actually use. I can not wait to get to work on Monday to try some of these tips out!
Thanks Dave.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This was great. Excellent practical tips which I can actually use. I can not wait to get to work on Monday to try some of these tips out!<br />
Thanks Dave.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Top 5 Traits of Toxic Teams by Patricia</title>
		<link>http://www.davelourdes.com/blog/?p=211&#038;cpage=1#comment-45</link>
		<dc:creator>Patricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 04:09:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Dave, you rally hit the nail on the head!  I used to work in this type of environment until I quite last August.  At least now I know it wasn&#039;t my imagination!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Dave, you rally hit the nail on the head!  I used to work in this type of environment until I quite last August.  At least now I know it wasn&#8217;t my imagination!!!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Toxic Team Get Out of Jail Strategies by Tina Cirillo</title>
		<link>http://www.davelourdes.com/blog/?p=309&#038;cpage=1#comment-44</link>
		<dc:creator>Tina Cirillo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 11:26:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Dave, 
Awesome blog! Got some great tips out of it for me to use in my work place. And yes, as always, you look hot!
Tina</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Dave,<br />
Awesome blog! Got some great tips out of it for me to use in my work place. And yes, as always, you look hot!<br />
Tina</p>
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